Showing posts with label first time mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label first time mom. Show all posts

Thursday, May 30, 2013

first time flying success-o!

Yay, I am happy to say that baby E did so well for her first time flying. Of course that's not to say she didn't get fussy, she did...but I think that had more to do with her missing her nap. I followed the advice of fellow mommies and also a tsa mommy who suggested giving E a bottle at takeoff and landing over a pacifier. This would help E in alleviating any discomfort from the ear pressure due to the high flying altitude. Each time she had the bottle or was nursing, she was fine. 

On the descent from our first flight (the morning one) - E was jumping around on our laps and being silly. But as soon as the descent was starting she got fussy. That was when I first started noticing her rubbing her ears. She looked so uncomfortable and I had only prepared 1 bottle which she consumed so fast at takeoff. You see, mommy here thought she would still be following her schedule and nap on the short flight. I was wrong! She was so excited on the plane but you could tell she was fighting her sleep. So when the descent started husby and I panicked. I tried to give her the pacifier but she wasn't having it..she was still rubbing her ears. I hastily grabbed my nursing cover and was super relieved that she took to nursing to alleviate her ear pressure.

On the way home we had a night flight so E just had her bottle and knocked out for the whole flight. However, I noticed on the start of the descent she started to rub around her ear area (even though she was asleep). So I quickly gave her a bottle and she was pacified. Haha, luckily I learned from our first flight that I should have 2 bottles prepared just in case! We thought that since she was asleep that she wouldn't need the second, but glad we were prepared bc she actually did need it.

All in all, the experience was way better than I could have hoped. Now I'm looking forward to our next family trip=)! Flight is going to be like 5x longer, so crossing fingers it's just as successful! Haha the one bummer I noticed though was that they don't do family pre-boarding anymore at the airports. Darn, we finally qualify for it and they took it a way just a few years ago! hahah ah well.

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

tools of the trade!

I just had a quick chat with one of my preggo friends last week about what equipment I use to make E's baby food. Well, I didn't get a chance to research all the baby food makers out there since we ended up receiving this as a gift at Christmas:


the baby bullet!

Do I like it? Yeah, it does what it's supposed to do. I put in my steamed/baked fruit/veggies/meats in there and it purees it to the consistency of my choice. Of course I add water/breast milk to get the exact consistency that E can eat. There are no presets, just more of a 1-setting blend feature. You can pulse but just pushing the casing up and down, but for the foods I do now I just use the regular blending/pureeing mode. Sure you can use your own blender if you already have one at home...I mean, it's pretty much the same thing. Even though we got this as a gift, I know I would have still bought a separate machine to make E's food. Though not as cost efficient, it gives me piece of mind that her food is made exclusively with a baby food maker with only foods she can ingest right now. I do use our steamer that we already own to steam some veggies/fruits. We have this one:

Oster Steamer!


and it does exactly what I need it to do to make E's food. Yeah I know, "You won't use the blender you already have but you'll use the steamer you already own?" Haha, hey! There's no blades on the steamer and the steamer is easier for me to clean. Plus it's steaming, not much food residue is left so I thought it would be okay to use for E's food=P. So yeah, the baby bullet + our oster steamer = perfect match on making baby E's sustenance!

Buuuuuuut, if we didn't already have the baby bullet I was also told about this model:
The Baby Brezza!

It's pretty much an all-in-one gadget for you baby food needs. Steams and purees - good use of being efficient considering how short on time we all are these days! So yeah, you choose what works best for you. In our case, we made the best of what we were given/had and it works out well for baby E's needs.

I did run short on containers to store her food in the fridge/freezer. I tend to make bigger portions and freeze them so that I can be more time efficient wehn making all her meals. I looked at grocery stores/online for containers and since I just wanted a specific size I opted for the Oxo tot blocks:

I really wanted to just get the lock and lock glass containers, but the ones I saw either came in a package with bigger sizes or if individual - then too pricey for me. So far, no issues with them. If freezing, I don't overfill the containers since I know the food will expand in the freezer. Has nice little markings on the side so I know how many ounces baby girl is getting. Right now it's the perfect size for her - holds up to 4oz. I had ordered 6-2oz containers as well (similar size as the 2 oz jars that came with the baby bullet), but I'll be returning them for more of these 4oz blocks. What works for you guys?


Friday, May 10, 2013

How I feel since being back at work...



Hahah yeah, that's been me since returning to work. I just feel like a zombie most days. It's funny because I could never understand how people drink coffee in the morning AND afternoon. My older sister who is an avid tea drinker hated coffee. But after having 2 kids, she is such a latte fiend. Like she seriously needs her morning espresso to function properly that day! I mean, dude...I would get jitters from just one latte. But now I totally get it...parenthood does that to you!

I would say on a good night, I can average about 6 hours of sleep? There's just so much to do once we get home that those few hours we get after work seem to fly by! We pick up E from the in-laws, get home, husby takes E a bath while I wash all my pumping stuff just so that I can pump later that night, I prep E's foods for the next day w/ the in-laws, try to prepare lunch for husby and I, give E her last bottle, and if we're lucky..maybe squeeze a show in with the husby to unwind. Haha, that's on a good night. Usually one of us (ahem, husby=P) is so tired that there's no tv at all. Not that I mind..it's always nice to just relax with the kindle, randomly search the web, or just sleep! And it cycles on like that for the rest of the week. Oh, the joys!

But, it pays quadrillion infinity fold when we see E smile at us when she wakes up the next day. Or when she tugs at my hair or husby's chin. Or when she squeals in delight and tries to crawl or cruise towards us when we go to pick her up. Or when she does her little twinkle toes jumping like a maniac on our laps=P. Or when she raspberries or puckers her lips at us to try to imitate the sounds we make with her. Ha, it's neverending and we love it.

So yeah, lack of sleep...pshhh no problem. Hahah, it's when I have no sleep AND I'm hungry that you better be worried. Hahah husby can relate to me when I feel like this:

                            
and he understands this golden rule:


muahahah..oh the internet, you crack me up!

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

My attempt at homemade baby food! First up - APPLES

Wow, it's been a while since posting. I totally thought I'd be able to post during the times I was nursing or up late at the oddest of hours. Guess things just got more hectic than I imagined!

The reason for this post? I've had my fair share now of attempts at making homemade baby food for baby E. Figured I better have some way to record them so that I can always go back to my go to recipes since everything learned is through trial and error and all my non-stop reading on the web. 

Hubby and I started to feed baby E solids 2x/day when she turned 6 months. Just like this blog, I thought I'd have mucho time to make her baby food. Of course I was wrong, and opted for Plum/Nature's Best/BRU baby food. Even though I'd only purchase the brand that would be on sale for the week, it adds up $$$!! What I spent on single food pouches/jars for 1 week was the same as what I'm spending now on foods to feed baby E for the whole month. And as much as I tried to just purchase the foods that did not have any of those unnecessary additives, some foods had it no matter which brand. I figured, if I can bake in the kitchen and cook (when there's free time available) I better make time to cook for our baby as well!!

So I'm proud to say that I'm going on a month so far of making baby E's food. It took a few tries to figure out what consistency worked well for her, so I decided to jot them down for my memory and to help other moms as well.

First up - APPLES

Apples:
1) What I used - apples & apple corer (optional - but after 3 batches of coring them myself, I finally got a corer.  Saves SO much time!!).

2) Now, you can either steam them or bake them. I've tried both, and it's more of do you to preserve more nutrients for your baby or do you want the faster method?

Baking*
- set oven to 400 degrees and start your prep work
- either core apples by hand or using an apple corer 
 this is the one I have OXO Good Grips Corer:
     -I usually do batches of 4-6 apples so that I have leftovers for future meals
- fill a baking pan with about 2-3 inches of water
- place cored apples (peeled or unpeeled)** in pan and voila, wait for them to bake
- set timer to 45 mins (though it can take anywhere from 45-60mins depending on your oven settings). To check if apples are done, use tongs to squeeze apples and check that they are tender.
- wait for apples to cool, then place in blender/baby food processor.
- you can either add the water you used to bake apples in or use fresh water, up to you
     -amount of water used depends on what kind of apple sauce consistency you want.
     - I add a tablespoon and just add more if I need to as I blend
- Ready to serve baby freshly made apple sauce, apple sauce used to mix in a baby meal, or store in freezer for future use.
- Store in fridge for about 3 days, or place in freezer and try to use within the month.

Steaming*
- either core apples by hand or using a corer (OXO Good Grips Corer)
     -I usually do batches of 4-6 apples so that I have leftovers for future meals
- fill your steamer with the required water amount OR if using a pot to steam, fill it up with about 1-2 inches of water.
- slice apples into wedges
- place apples wedges (peeled or unpeeled)** in steaming tray and let the steamer do it's thing!
- set timer to 15 mins (though it can be more or less depending on your settings). To check if apples are done, use tongs/fork to squeeze apples and check that they are tender.
- wait for apples to cool, then place in blender/baby food processor.
- add water to blender/processor to get desired apple texture
     -amount of water used depends on what kind of apple sauce consistency you want.
     - I add a tablespoon and just add more if I need to as I blend
- Ready to serve baby freshly made apple sauce, apple sauce used to mix in a baby meal, or store in freezer for future use.
- You can store in fridge for about 3 days, or place in freezer and try to use within the month.

*Countless articles I've read say that baking is the best way to preserve the nutrients for your baby. It does take longer, so if you are short on time steaming is the 2nd best way to go for at least 1/3 of the time it takes to bake!

**I think it's up to you to leave the skins on or off - I've tried both, so I think it may be more your comfort level. Articles I've read say that it is okay to leave the skins on for babies 6 months and older, before pureeing it. I will say, that I was a bit wary leaving the skins on this last time I made apple sauce and also pear puree. So I tried to take out any skins I saw that didn't break down to small enough pieces in my baby blender. That's just the paranoid freak in me. I'm sure it's okay for our 9 month old now, but mommy is always worried=P.

Now, that wasn't so bad was it? My brother-in-law saw me making home made baby food for baby E and asked me why I do it. Well, if I can cook hubby and my meals at home shouldn't I do the same for our daughter? I know it's always more convenient to try the store bought way, but doing it this way makes me feel good that I'm providing something that I know is good for my baby. No preservatives, no additives....just all NATURAL!

Get to it, mama!=)

Saturday, September 29, 2012

2 months...

It took 2 months for me to finally have some time to blog. Our baby girl is now 2 months old and is giving mommy and daddy a breather. While daddy watches her, I get my me time. Well not exactly..just a short break before I resume my mommy duties. Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom. It has totally changed my life in such an awesome way. But wow, they weren't kidding when they said your life is not your own anymore. All our time is now consumed with our daughter. For the sake of privacy, I'll just refer to her as "E" from now on.

E has been such a joy in our lives while at the same time such a challenge to figure out sometimes! Am I alone on this one? I don't think I have postpartum, but I guess I did have the baby blues? There was one day where my husband came home from work and I was so irritable. As much as he tried to comfort me and tell me to go out or at least just take a drive, I kept telling him I was fine. Ha, the infamous "I'm fine" response from a woman. At the time though I really thought I was okay, just hormonal of course. But in the end I took his advice and decided to go for a drive by myself. Not a big deal to some, I was literally just going out to pick up dinner. Wow, that was an eye opener for me. That was the first time I had ever been away from baby E. As much as I love spending time with my little one, I realized that I need some me time. Maybe not the "me" time that I'm used too, but just that short 30 minute respite to myself was rejuvenating. I guess I needed that drive, and I'm lucky that my husband kept encouraging me to take advantage of the time when he can watch our baby and give me a break.

So here we are....I'm blogging. I can't promise myself that I'll be here all the time. But, I will certainly try. I'm sure I'm not alone out there when I say that it gets lonely sometimes being a stay at home mom. I know that I am blessed to have this free time to take care of our daughter. But this first time mommy is still learning the ins and outs of motherhood. Slowly trying to get by in this new world introduced to me 2 months ago and just striving to be the best mama I can to our baby E. So to keep me sane, I will blog.